4/16-4/30: ~~~LEARN THE 1 SECRET THAT WILL MAKE A WOMAN VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU~~~~ (DC)
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Date: 2008-04-16, 6:30PM EDT
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Many a man uses his whole gamut of tricks
in his proverbial bag to pique a beautiful
baby's interest.
From demonstrating a lightening quick wit...
... To sharing interesting stories about
himself...
... To doing magic tricks like a clown out
of Barnum & Bailey's circus...
... To asking her intriguing questions
and then sitting there silent the way
people sit in church...
... To, if he has a huge schlong like I
do, pulling it out and showing it to
her. (Mine is nine inches... when I measure
from the back of my butt - ca-ching!)...
... And the list goes on.
But to his dismay her eyes wander to her
cell phone to check to see if anyone called
or text messaged her. They meander to the
people in back of him.
In fact, just about everything in his
environment seems to enthrall her except for
him, causing a billion and one insecurities
to snake into his mind, such as...
1). She must think I am ugly as sin.
2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta
cheese?
3). Do I have the personality of a
houseplant?
4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?
5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in
tomorrow's paper?
And if he's bitter, he might think, "She's
like a warm toilet seat: some guy was there
before me, another will be there when I
get up."
Like a hard working mule, he takes one last
crack at making conversation.
But, alas, she stings him with, "It was nice
meeting you but I have to go."
In retrospect, he might think, "Damn! That
fall-asleep boring conversation piece took
the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like
the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering
alcoholic off the wagon. I should've never
used it."
Most of us have experienced something
along these lines. I have more than I'd care
to admit.
Many of us have thought, "If I only had more
interesting things to say, do, or show women,
my outcome with them would be completely
different."
While this may be true to an extent, most
great orators, politicians, and salesmen
will tell you: The content of what you say
is far less important than how you say it.
I've seen comedians put an audience in
stitches one night and bomb the next.
While the standup routine they used was
exactly the same on both nights, their
delivery was completely different.
For this reason...
You won't learn any interesting
conversation pieces, cute lines, or
fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this
article.
Instead...
I'm going to teach you a communication
secret that captivates women.
But before I go on, I want you to make
me a promise (and, as you'll see in a
few minutes, this promise is for your
own good)...
No matter how boring you think you
are - even if you think you're more
boring than a ninety year old woman
living in a nursing home - I want you
to promise me that you won't change
the content of what you talk about
with women for one week.
Here's why...
I want you to see for yourself how
only adding this simple secret to what
you currently do and say when
interacting with women can dramatically
increase your success.
In school, most of us were taught to
finish a thought or idea before moving
onto the next.
Great advice if you want to plunge women
into a narcoleptic stupor. A few minutes
listening to you and insomniacs will
sleep like babies.
But if you wanna become a charismatic
Casanova that compels women to hang onto
his every word, you need to break this
crippling habit and start using nested
loops.
A nested or open loop is when you start
an idea, thought, or story, and instead
of finishing it, you move onto something
else. In other words, you keep the loop
open.
Whenever the human brain is presented
with an open loop - unfinished idea,
thought, or story - it seeks closure.
Open loops are a form of what I call
"tension loops" because they create
unresolved emotional tension in a
woman.
Even if a woman finds you as
interesting and attractive as a sewer
rat, the open loop unconsciously compel
her to hang onto every word that pours
out of your lips and emotionally drives
her to see you as a valuable Prize.
Because she seeks resolution to the
tension you've sparked inside her body
and knows that you can bring closure to
that tension, she perceives you as
having value and heeds close attention
to everything you say.
Imagine a slovenly bum and a high
maintenance babe crossing paths.
The bum makes a tragic try at
conversation with her by saying,
"Hello. My name is Jack and I am
homeless. Let me tell you about how I
became homeless."
Chances are, she'd have no interest
and scurry off because she finds him
aesthetically repulsive, possibly
scary, and of little value.
But if he fired an open loop at her,
such as, "You know what they say
about women with green eyes?" he
would probably spark unresolved
tension in her body.
She'd feel a yen for emotional
closure. Closure only he has the
power to bring her.
And bada bing, bada boom...
This vagabond she normally would
never give the time of day to piques
her interest and has value
(or Prizability) in her eyes.
Furthermore, open loops can build sexual
arousal...
When you spark emotional tension within
the context of flirting with a woman it
becomes sexualized in her body.
But there's a facet of open loops I
haven't mentioned yet...
It's called the "Zeigarnik effect."
One of the early contributors to Gestalt
psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that
waiters remember orders up until they
serve the food. Then they forget.
This led to the discovery that the brain
retains the most information when a
loop is open.
How does this help you?
Everything you tell a woman between
opening up a loop and closing it, she
probably will remember.
I want to share with you a powerful
application of open loops I learned
from watching politicians...
Oftentimes, when politicians are asked
a question, they skirt around it for
several minutes, talking about almost
irrelevant topics, before directly
addressing it.
This keeps the listener in suspense.
How can we apply this to seduction
and attraction?
Here's an example...
When most men meet a woman they
utter their name and then shake the
woman's hand. Usually that's it.
The interaction is over.
Chances are... after an hour or so
elapses, she won't remember his name
or anything about him.
Instead, when a woman asks me my
name I use an open loop.
I might say...
"When I was a kid my mom
told me that she and my dad originally
named me Arete, which means all the
qualities that make up someone with
good character.
And I said, 'Wow, mom... that's awesome!
Why didn't you keep the name?'
And she said, 'Well honey, you're
lucky we didn't name you Arete because
it's the name of a goddess from Greek
mythology. But we didn't really give a
crap about you having a female name. The
real reason we didn't name you Arete was
that our dog was named Arete - we really
loved the name. And on the day you were
born our dog was hit by a car and killed.
When we looked at you, we didn't want
you to remind us of the dog. Because then
we'd become sad and hate you. So we named
you Swinggcat instead.'"
In lieu of giving her the instant
gratification of learning my name I'm
using an open loop.
This builds unresolved tension inside
her body, which becomes sexualized.
Her unconscious mind seeks to bring
closure to this loop, inciting her to
hang on to my every word.
Had I just told her my name from the
get go, she might have judged, "This
average looking guy probably lives a
boring life," and then moved onto
another guy.
But by using an open loop, I had an
opportunity to demonstrate that I come
from cultured people, have a sense of
humor, tell great stories, and possess
value (or Prizability).
Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she
will remember that I was the guy
almost named Arete.
Unfortunately this article only
scratches the surface of open loops.
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